I'm afraid I can't fall back on the old "nothing has been going on, so I had nothing to write about" excuse, either. This has been a very eventful year for me. Monumental, even. So with this post, I'm going to attempt to cover some of the major happenings in my life (writing and otherwise) in a digestible amount of words. This may prove difficult. Bear with me.
Love & Marriage
I don't often talk about my personal life online. It's not that I have some secret identity that I don't want to reveal; it's just my nature to keep to myself. I've never been the type to vent or share publicly, and even now, I feel conflicted over whether this is a good or bad thing. There are times when I'm jealous of those who find it easy to talk about what they had for breakfast on Facebook. Most of the time, I just assume that no one cares what's going on in my life. In this case, however, I couldn't possibly post a general update on these last few months without mentioning the event that jumpstarted the roller coaster that was this summer.
|Pictured: Actual Hands|
Allison and I had already been living "the married life" for years, so now it's largely back to normal for us. But it felt amazing to finally walk the aisle and make it official. Here's to many more years to come.
After getting hitched, Allison and I took a honeymoon trip to London, which just so happened to coincide with LonCon 3, the 72nd annual WorldCon. Leading up to the trip, I was a little nervous. Not only was this going to be my first WorldCon, but I'd also been invited to be a program participant. My schedule was light—only two panels—but I'd never been on the other side of the table before. As you may have surmised, public speaking isn't exactly my thing. Couple that with a hefty dose of impostor syndrome, and I wasn't feeling supremely confident, you might say. Once I got there, however, I met up with several members of Codex (an online writing group I belong to), and my worries soon departed. These awesome folks reminded me that I belonged there; these were my people. I even managed to do some "schmoozing" at the SFWA reception without taking up residence in a shadowy corner and staring.
When my panels came around, I was lucky enough to be matched up with some great people there, as well. My fellow panelists were friendly, funny, and easy to have an interesting talk with. The moderators did a great job keeping things moving. It didn't take long before I forgot there was a room full of people staring at me, and I was able to just let myself have a good time. I had a blast, and I'm so glad I took the opportunity to get an experience like this under my belt. I'll definitely be open to paneling again at any future cons I attend. Speaking of which, I hope to become a regular con-hopper over the next couple of years. I'm going to do my best to get to next year's WorldCon in Spokane, at the very least.
|Flying Nanny Deterrent at Borough Market|
We visited several attractions, including the Natural History Museum, the Victoria & Albert Museum, the Cutty Sark, the Royal Observatory Greenwich (which featured a steampunk exhibit), and more. But some of the most enjoyable times arose when we abandoned plans and just explored the city, hopping trains, ducking into stores, having lunch in corner coffee shops.
It's safe to say we fell in love with London. We hated leaving, even after homesickness began to set in. At one point, we even priced apartments in the city, half jokingly, just to see. I'd hoped to see some of the English countryside as well, but there just wasn't enough time. Hopefully we can return one day soon.
So as you can see, it's been quite a year. But I've still been writing.
When it comes to the written word, 2014 has been a year of experimentation for me. I've been frequently changing up my routine, my schedule, my short-term goals, even some of my long-term goals. This was all spurred by the post-Odyssey daze I experienced last year, where I spent a lot of time trying to find the right way to internalize and capitalize on that infusion of knowledge. It's been very interesting to analyze my progress now that I'm more than a year out from that crazy experience.
|The Revise-O-Box of Sadness|
The downturn in words produced this year hasn't been quite as disheartening as it could have been, probably because it's been balanced out by a dose of writerly goodness here and there throughout the year. WorldCon was one of those. I've also sold two more stories since my last update: Möbius to Nature, and The Dragon Weeps (a reprint of my first short story) to Sorcerous Signals. Both will be published soon, accompanied by my usual heads up here. There's still a couple months to go in 2014, so maybe I can squeeze another sale out this year. Are you listening, publication gods?
If you managed to read all that, thank you! I'll try not to let a comparable gulf develop between updates next time around, though I am looking forward to a much more relaxed, routine 2015.